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Soul-mate Survey: Do you believe you can have more then one soul-mate?

Let me add that I believe a soul mate is both something natural and also it needs to be worked at by both people. Much like wild crops, they may thrive on their own, but if in a farm, they grow and thrive like no ones business because of tender care. (fertilizing, water, planting times, pest control, etc). So I believe we can have more then one soul mate and it is partly natural, but also needs to be worked on. It is fertilized with romance, love, respect, laughter, a warm heart and so on. I want to see if others feel as I do, or if you disagree, please feel free to say so. In other words, just state your honest opinion. Thanks for taking part.

Public Comments

One's quite enough for me.
no i disagree !!!!! one only!!!!!!!!!!!! after that it;s lust!!!!!
Do soul-mates really exist?
SOul Mates don't exist................
i agree
I believe that people can have more than one...Good Morning Moe!
yes, you can have many soul mates. Thats my honest oppinion. I get along with so many people, even those who are different than I am. Not just the ones that are exactly like me.
'Soul-mate' is a Hollywood myth.
Yeah, i have had several - still on the lookout for another soulmate haha!
I absolutely do! I found my perfect match, except that he's married, and I would never ask a man to leave his wife, but he and I are still really good on-line friends and flirt a bit on occasion. [Good thing he and I live a few states apart...] As far as my kids' father goes, I'm willing to try to work on things as long as he puts forth the majority of the effort now, since I've been doing so for the last 10 years.
What are there? Almost 7 billion people in the world? A quarter percent of THOSE people are my soul mate. But I'll never know it. Because obviously "soul mates" are determined by geographic location. More times than not. So sad.
I really was skeptical about this my entire life until fate threw me in HIS path. Sadly the distance between us and inability to change our lives has kept us apart, and probably will continue to. I still can never let go of that last tiny shred of hope that someday we will be able to physically be together. There has never ever been another who understands me and completes me the way that person does. We have lost contact but I can still feel him, his joy, pain, little victories and the emptiness that is there at times as well. Yep I no longer think a soul mate is utter BS but I know that it is pure hell when you cant have what is rightfully yours thanks for bumming me and makin me cry babes! I guess I needed that this morning.. (((Moe))) edit- to answer it right now I think there is only one but I sure hope that I am wrong & that someday I can let go of the fantasy
I think soul-mate means different things to different people and in some cases is over used. But yes, I do believe that it can happen more than once and agree with a lot of what you said. It takes time to grow and fertilize the relationship. But again, that is different for each individual. Relationships are a commitment and constant daily work of nurturing, but there are undoubtedly some people that we connect with from the start on a very deep level beyond just the physical. I can think of two very happily married couples that had really close, and thriving relationships for many years. . When their mates died it took a while, but both found deep happiness again, and both said they would have never imagined they would find a love as close and meaningful as their first, but they did . On the other hand ,I know of one man who lost his wife 2 years ago, and I doubt very much if he will ever be able to be in a relationship with anyone that he loved as much as his wife. To him she was the one and only mate of his heart and soul and love, always. For him, there's only one..And for him it was a wonderful and satisfying love but also the wound from her loss is so great,because she meant so much.
Good question,I always wondered if everyone has a soul mate.I think it depends alot on how much your willing to work on the ups/downs.
I believe that love is (what you mentioned in the fist part of your question: something natural and also it needs to be worked at by both people. Much like wild crops, they may thrive on their own, but if in a farm, they grow and thrive like no ones business because of tender care. (fertilizing, water, planting times, pest control, etc). Soul mate, on the other hand (which some believe and some do not) is (I think) a one time thing.....you can only have one SOUL MATE......but you can be in love with many different people. To me there is a big difference. Also, i do not believe that everyone finds their soulmate....it is a rare occasion (and lucky one at that) if you actually do. Many are completely head over heels in love (no question about it) but not soul mates! This can be easily confused!
I totally agree, that's why there's so much temptation in relationships <3 And yet, we have the knowledge to chose , that's what separates us from the animals LOL
I believe what you say is true Moe. Love, honey
yes I do 100%.....I also am a believer in past lives... and what is heartbreaking is having a soulmate and finding another from a past life....my heart is hurting daily.....
Nope. If there were, it should be solved in the Thunderdome. 2 men enter, 1 man leaves.
I believe in more than one.But I'm also the person who believes that love is not what you feel on your wedding day.I also think there are an infinite number of levels that two people can connect on. Good morning Moe!
Do you mean "having" as in bed at the same time? Nothing like setting lofty goals.
I'm all about serial monogamy.
I agree. I think you can have more than one soul mate in a lifetime if you work on it. I think that you are naturally attracted to them, and the rest of the relationship has to be nutured and grow with loving care. Certainly this can happen more than once in a lifetime. That's why humans have endless capacity to love. At least that's what I believe.
Yes I believe its possible,I am with my second right now and love her dearly
I'm with you Moe, I think you can have more than one soul-mate.
Yeah that sounds good to me. (Sadly, I haven't found any other soul who wants to be my mate yet ... apart from my ex wife)